2009年8月2日星期日

parenting teens advice tips - Parenting Your Teen

parenting teens advice tips - Parenting Your Teen

ATTENTION PARENTS: The constant battle between parents and their teenagers is about to become a thing of the past...

Why 96% Of Parents Experience Stress, Frustration, And Confusion During Their Child's Teenage Years...

...And What You Can Do To Easily Turn Things Around And Start Developing A More Connected, Down-To-Earth, Win-Win Relationship With Your Teen And Virtually Guarantee Their Future Success RIGHT NOW...

Dear Parent-Of-A-Teenager, Let me ask you a few questions... Think VERY CAREFULLY as you read them...
  • Do you feel that the relationship between you and your teenager is becoming more and more... distant?
  • Are confrontations between you and your teen just becoming too common?
  • Do you have a hard time getting your teenager to agree with your suggestions and take your advice?
  • Do you fear that your teenager is developing bad habits that will have a negative impact on his or her future?
  • Do you ever worry that, based on his or her current state of affairs, your teenager won't be prepared to succeed in the next stage of his or her life?
  • Is there a constant power struggle between you and your teen?
  • Does your teen act overly stubborn and defensive when you ask questions and make comments and suggestions?
  • Do small arguments seem to erupt into huge arguments in a split second?
  • Do you fear that your teenager's friends have a bad influence on him or her, and that there's nothing you can do about it?
  • Does your teen constantly reject your warnings and make poor decisions... even if you thoroughly explain the consequences of their actions beforehand?
  • Have you ever felt that talking to your teenager is like talking to a wall... your words just seem to go in one ear and out the other?
  • Has your teen stopped taking you seriously?
  • Do you enter a state of total confusion and simply ask yourself, "Why? ...What am I doing Wrong?"
If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then I have something VERY important to tell you... That something is this: I know exactly how you feel. Ninety-six percent of parents have experienced every one of the same fears, frustrations, and dilemmas during their child's teenage years. After interviewing over 500 parents and teenagers, I have heard everything... and I mean EVERYTHING... And I could feel the frustration from the hundreds of parents that I talked to. They explained to me how they just couldn't understand why their relationship with their teenager was becoming so difficult... ...How they tolerated B.S. from their teen, just because they were so tired of fighting... and they didn't know what to do anymore... ...How they felt that their teenager hated them for absolutely no reason even though they were trying their absolute best... but to no avail... ...How they felt that the relationship was becoming so torn that there was literally NOTHING they could do about it... and on and on... I know each and every one of these situations. I've heard it all.
How To "Fix" The Game So You Guarantee Win-Win Outcomes Over And Over And Over Again...
Do you remember the game tic-tac-toe? You know, the one kids play, with the X's and O's? Remember playing it with your friends? You played with one classmate... then with another... and then you came across one opponent who won every time? He or she beat every one with ease... And when you watched him or her, it looked SO simple, right? And this kid did it EVERY TIME. And you kept playing against him or her. And no matter what you tried, this kid always won. He or she won easily, AGAIN and AGAIN... right before your eyes (and your friends too, of course). After a while, after losing over and over, you realized that there was a "trick" to winning the game. You watched how he or she won... and you finally figured out what they did to guarantee themselves a win. And when you know this trick and use it, you become unbeatable. And when you play against someone who doesn't know the trick, you ALWAYS WIN. You found a way to "beat the system". You outfoxed the fox. You figured out the secret, and now YOU HAD THE POWER. You felt so cool... (well... I know I did... so roll with me here...) So what's this got to do with developing an awesome relationship with your teenager? A lot. A WHOLE lot, actually... What if you knew the "trick" to getting along with, influencing, and communicating to your teen? What if you could handle ALL situations and easily solve ALL conflicts with your teen as consistently as that one kid in school who could always win the tic-tac-toe game? Again, let me ask you: What if YOU KNEW THAT UNDERLYING "TRICK" to CONSISTENT success in dealing with your teenager? If you give me just a few more minutes of your time, I'd like to show you exactly how to do just that. I'll show you...
How To Handle Your Teenager And All Situations Involving Him Or Her In A True "WIN-WIN" Manner And Develop The Co-Operative, Down-To-Earth, Frustration-Free Relationship That You've Always Wanted
My name is Sean Simser and unlike so many other "experts" today, I am actually a real, renowned parent-teen relationship advisor, lecturer, and consultant. More important than all that is the fact that I know parents of teens better than anyone else out there... I've talked to parents who have tried literally everything to try and handle their teen and develop a better relationship with them... from parents who have attended seminars, to parents that bought and read hundreds of parenting books, to parents who have spent thousands of dollars on counseling and professional help for their situation with their teen... and 99% of these parents didn't see much (if any) change in their teen's behavior, or the relationship... And after discussing, researching, and thinking about this for a very, VERY long time, I came to a MAJOR conclusion. These credible authors and parenting advice experts are making one HUGE mistake. Let me explain... Parents buy these books from credible authors and give away their money to "experts" and naturally and rightfully assume that the advice they will be receiving is legitimate. Bur here's the paradox... The advice is legitimate... in theory. By this I mean, the strategies that these authors and experts prescribe should work. Their material is LOGICAL. And this is their MISTAKE. The problem is, the way teens think, communicate, develop and act is not always logical. In fact, it is RARELY logical, right? And you can't use LOGICAL relationship strategies when the person you're dealing with isn't always thinking or acting in a logical manner.
...You Can't Use LOGIC When Dealing With Someone Who Doesn't Think or Act Logically
Take the relationship between a man and a woman for example. A man may assume (in a logical manner) that a woman will appreciate something BIG like a vacation MORE than she appreciates something small like putting the toilet seat down. But according to John Gray in his book Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus, this is not so. To women, the "little things" are JUST AS important as the big things. And this, to a man, does not make sense at all, LOGICALLY. "How the heck could something so small and unimportant as putting the seat sown POSSIBLY be appreciated as much as a big and expensive as a vacation?" he asks himself. You can’t logically make sense of it. It’s just the way it works. Well, it’s the same thing for modern-day teenagers. You can’t deal with them in a logical manner. You've got to deal with them in a manner that takes into account their conditioning, psychology, and experience. To make a long story short, my sister and I decided to DO SOMETHING about this VOID in the history of parenting advice... ...And after more than 4 years of research in psychology, social evolution, cognitive development, and over 500 real-world interviews with parents and teens, we decided to create a “unifying manual” that teaches parents how to deal with teenagers IN A MANNER THAT TAKES INTO ACCOUNT THE MODERN DAY TEEN'S CONDITIONING, PSYCHOLOGY, and EXPERIENCE, so that parents and teens can build more meaningful, win-win relationships with their teens and virtually guarantee their teens' success. And now we are finally ready to unleash our program that includes all of the *tricks* for dealing with teenagers, in even the worst parent-teen situations.
What Makes This Revolutionary Parenting Program So Exciting Is That It Allows You To:
  • Effortlessly Gain Compliance From Your Teen Without Inflicting Underlying Resentment- With our proven methods designed with the modern day teenager's psychological conditioning in mind, you'll be able to get your teen to take action on your requests immediately.
  • Talk To Your Teen So Your Teen Will Listen And Listen To Your Teen So Your Teen Will Talk- When you discover the key essentials to initiating and maintaining a conversation with the "modern-day teenager", you'll be able to get your point across with ease... AND your teen will open up to you like never before.
  • Be A Friend And A Parent At The Same Time- We'll show you how you can be a successful coach, mentor, and advisor to your teen AND still be one of his or her best friends.
  • Overcome Even The Worst Current Relationship Situation- Many, many painfully struggling parents who thought that the relationship they had with their teen was "gone for good" have routinely made 180 degree turns and totally transformed their relationship with their teenager using this breakthrough program. And trust me, we've helped solve the absolute WORST possible situations.
  • Set Your Teen Up For A Successful, Abundant, Positive Future- By avoiding the deadly mistakes most parents make and implementing techniques for setting up and maintaining a progressive, success-conducive atmosphere, your teen will be on a one-way path to a bright future.
It doesn't matter if you have tried every other teen parenting program there is; this works every time. I guarantee it and I've got the results to prove it.
“Gained Compliance And More Respect Immediately”
“Sean and Sheri, we can't thank you enough for everything you have done for us. Our household has undergone a total change for the better and we feel like we owe it all to you guys. You've provided us with so much value it can't be expressed in words. We're now able to gain compliance from our 16 year old teenage son without even having to raise our voices, and we've noticed that he respects and values us as parents much more than he ever has before. Thanks Again!” Paula & Eric Moore (Parents of 16-year-old male) Phoenix, AZ
“No More Frustration And Problems (If Any) Solved With Ease”
“With the PYT program I feel much less frustrated because now I have a complete understanding of what's going on at a deeper level. My 17 year old stepdaughter (of four years) and I used to get into "wars" just about every day. Now we rarely even engage in conflict... and when we do, I'm able to use your techniques and solve the problem within seconds. Thanks for everything Sean and Sheri.” Jane Sentner (Stepmother of 17-year-old female) Culver City, CA
“Saved The Relationship With My Teenager”
“My relationship with my daughter seemed to be quickly falling apart, until your techniques and strategies literally saved it. Now, my daughter and I can communicate like friends, instead of her treating me like an inconvenience. I highly recommend this program to anyone, and I thank you so, so much Sean and Sheri.” Christine Lawson (Mother of 18-year-old female) Vancouver, BC
Introducing... The Most Effective Parenting System Ever Created For Parents Of Teenagers
Parenting Your Teen: What Every Parent Must Know is a parenting crash course that is unlike anything you have ever seen or tried before. It was created specifically for you; the determined parent who wants to gain compliance from and develop a better relationship with his or her teen and set them up for success. It specifically addresses the exact needs of parents like you who want to rapidly improve the current situation with your teen using proven strategies that correspond to the modern teenager's psychology. And it finally allows you to overcome this obstacle and start developing the relationship that you WANT without all of the stress and frustration. It makes no difference how many times you have tried and failed before or how distraught your relationship with your teen may be. All of the answers you have been looking for are right here. No more "wondering what you did wrong" in ANY situation. You can finally develop the kind of best-friend relationship with your teenager, which will help both you and your teen enjoy life more.
Just Take A Look At What You Get In This Complete, Step By Step Parenting Program...

The Parenting Your Teen Program:

The “Parenting Your Teen” Master Manual!
The Ultimate Guide To Parenting Teenagers Written in a straightforward, easy-to-understand style, Parenting Your Teen provides the steps to a better relationship with your teenager which can be instantly applied by anyone. There are no ridiculously complicated scientific terms of insider language that requires a degree in psychology to understand. No filler, no fluff; just rock solid truth about how to develop a true win-win, compliant, down-to-earth relationship with your teen as fast as possible... without wearing yourself out.
Here's A Sample Of What You'll Discover...
  • The #1 most important pr
    inciple of parenting teens
    that is actually overlooked in 99% of all programs. You're wasting a lot of energy unless you know this. The 3 Critical "Rules" Of Parenting Teenagers Exactly what it's like to be a teenager today and how you can use this knowledge to better relate to and understand your teenager. The things parents say that actually push teens further away and what to say instead so that they'll listen, consider your suggestions, and open up to you. The one things that you are doing right now and must stop immediately that has been proven to create a thick barrier between parents and teens, encourage stress, and increase your level of frustration. Should you let your teen learn from their own mistakes? Or should you warn them about the mistakes you made in order to prevent them from making the same mistakes? Why mothers and daughters often experience a distraught relationship during the daughter's teenage years... and exactly what you can do about it. A little known technique that will make the relationship between you and your teen 300% better! (And it has nothing to do with what you do) The one widely accepted rule of parenting that is actually completely backwards and why following this rule will case the relationship between you and your teen to become more distant. What styles of parenting set teenagers up for success and what styles of parenting set teens up for misdirection. How to solve conflicts in a completely effortless, win-win manner and have both you and your teen leave a conflict satisfied and as bigger people. How to deal with all 18 of the common sources of conflict between parents and teens (including setting a curfew, agreeing to a reasonable bedtime, too much computer and TV, disrespect, and school-related issues). How to "mutually" set rules with your teenager (but get what you really want... while leaving them satisfied at the same time)...
  • And much,
    much, MUCH more...

By Using This System You WILL Develop A Deeper, More Down-To-Earth, Win-WIn Relationship With Your Teen... Guaranteed!

But you don't have to take my word for it. Just listen to what some more of our satisfied customers are saying...
“Tried Everything To Improve The Relationship & Couldn't But Finally Turned Things Around With The Parenting Your Teen Program”
“With Sean and Sheri's system my wife and I tried everything to fix the relationship with our teenage girl... seminars, family counseling, psychiatrists... but nothing worked. That was until we found Sean and Sheri and their mind-blowing teen parenting techniques. Things have really turned around now, and I very much appreciate it.” Huang Van (Father of 4) Buffalo, NY
“The Difference Is Like Night And Day”
“Sean and Sheri, I can't thank you enough. My two teenage sons have completely changed. As soon as I started reading your program it was as if you had been watching over my household for the past two years. I never thought this change would be possible. The difference is like night and day. Thank you so very much.” Lilyana Hughson (Mother of 2) Anderson, IN
“Single Father Made His Life Much Easier”
“Hey guys, I just wanted to write to you and thank you for everything that you shared in your program. I have three teenagers, two sons and a daughter, aged 13, 14, and 16, respectively, and things came to the point where our household needed a serious change, because as a single father, it was very hard for me to handle all of my teenagers. But when I got your program, I noticed a shift right away. I noticed an increase in my teens' willingness to help out, a lot less fighting, and overall, a more peaceful atmosphere. Awesome stuff!” David Janka (Father of 3) Edmonton, AB
“Completely Changed”
“The Parenting Your Teen Program completely changed how we reacted to our teenage daughter and how we parented her. You start seeing results right away, and things have completely changed.” Allison and Roger Schubert (Parents of 2) Jacksonville, FL
“Just Followed The Steps And BAM! Had Success!”
“Your program is simply amazing. All I did was follow the steps, and my daughter stopped yelling at me. She stopped arguing. She started doing her homework. It really gave me the sense that I am in charge, and she's happy with things.” Selena Pagan (Mother of 17-year-old female) Anaheim, CA
“Household Completely Transformed”
“After going through this program, our family actually enjoys each other's company. This is something that I never thought possible. Now my daughter and I actually want to be around each other, and my son has completely stopped defying my husband. There's no more arguments, no more lectures, and no more talking back. We've really turned things around. Thanks a lot.” Beth Crowe (Mother of 16-year-old female and 15-year-old male) St. Louis, MO
“All The Answers You Have Been Looking For”
“Parenting Your Teen is by far one of the greatest things that has ever happened to my family. It takes you through everything from why your current situation is the way it is, to how to completely change it without upsetting anyone. I would recommend the program to anyone who is serious about improving their relationship with their teen. Thank you vey much guys.” Geoff Fox (Father of 3) Toronto, ON
These Are Regular Parents Just Like You Who Have Dramatically Transformed Their Relationships With Their Teens... And Now You Can Too
For less than the cost of...
  • A night out for dinner
  • A new release DVD
  • Or even one session with a clueless "parenting expert"...
You can finally stop wasting your time, energy and hard earned money and start developing the relationship that you want with your teen, faster than ever before. No more wishing things were better. It's your time to feel what it's like to have a calm, down-to-earth, win-win relationship with your teen. You can finally be the parent that all your teen's friends want to have. The confidence... the respect... the amazing memories... It's all yours for the taking.
Why We Decided To Reveal This Information To The Public For The First Time
For quite a while now the only way to get a hold of this information was to be one of our private clients who paid us $290 per session and called us their "secret weapon" for getting compliance, respect, and a winning attitude from their teen. The other option was to enroll in our coaching program for $1,195.00... and that usually had a four month waiting list. Our consulting program is currently filled up with clients and we can't possible take on any new clients. We're booked around the clock! We found that we were limited in the number of people we can reach with this revolutionary information. And we can't stand to see parents undergo all of the unnecessary hardships that they do and be stressed and frustrated with their teen. That is why we decided to finally compile all of this information in one instantly downloadable system that anyone can order from anywhere across the globe at any time; day or night, and begin using right away. This is the only way we can reach more people and share this incredible information with students of the world.
Order Today And You Will Also Receive The Following FREE Bonus (Worth $59.97)
Free Bonus: Inside The Teenage Brain
This eBook reveals cutting edge information regarding the nature of the teenage brain. You'll learn:
  • How adult and teen brains interpret emotions, behaviors, and signals differently... ...And how you can use this knowledge to ease situations and solve conflicts without either party getting heated. How the frontal cortex of the brain effects planning, strategizing, and thinking things through, and how this is very important during the teenage years. How teenage brain development is associated with behavior, attitude, impulsiveness, and risk...
  • ...And how your teen can use this information so that he or she can better understand himself or herself.
This is an absolute must read for all parents (and it can be very useful for teens, too).
That's It, I'm In! Just Tell Me How Much It's Going To Cost And Where I Sign Up
We have some great news for you. Since we decided to release this as an e-book package and there are no longer any shipping or printing costs, we were able to significantly reduce the regular price of the entire Parenting Your Teen Program from $137 all the way down to a one time payment of just $27! Not only that, but you don't have to wait 5 to 7 days for it to get to you in the mail, either. You can download the whole program and get started in the next 5 minutes. PLUS you get FREE updates for life whenever we make updates to the program! But don't wait to order because this phenomenal price reduction won't last long and will be going up to $67 very soon. This information is just too life changing to be giving away for so cheap. Those who have been on our site recently know that the price has already risen so don't procrastinate and miss out on this great opportunity. If you come back tomorrow the price may be doubled. Oh yeah and by the way... since I'm so sure that you will experience an amazing transformation in your relationship with your teenager and will be so happy with your results, I'm offering you a...
2 Months, Unconditional 100% Money Back Guarantee!
I'm so sure that you will love this program and experience awesome results from it, that I'm willing to give you your money back if you aren't entirely satisfied. There's absolutely no risk for you, whatsoever! Try out the entire system for up to 8 weeks, and if you're not totally blown away by it then I want you to write and tell me and I'll give you a prompt, no questions asked, 100% full refund. I can do this because all of my customers are developing a better relationship with their teen than they ever thought possible. And I know you will too!
Okay, since this package is jammed full of killer parenting strategies, let me recap EXACTLY what you are getting and will have access to, just two short munites from now.
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YES! Sean, I can't wait to get my hands on the ultimate parenting teenagers program and experience a rapid improvement in the relationship that I have with my teenager, starting TODAY! I understand that I will receive instant download access to the...
  • Parenting Your Teen Program Manual- $137 Value
Plus, since I'm ordering before Tuesday, August 04, 2009, I also get the following gift valued at $59.97 absolutely FREE:
  • Understanding The Teenage Brain
Total value of the entire Parenting Your Teen Program - $196.97 Limited time only sale price- $67 $27 I have absolutely nothing to lose and a better relationship with my teen to gain by using the PYT Program. If this doesn't get me excited about developing a more relaxed, down-to-earth, win-win relationship with my teenager, nothing will. Order Securely Online The fastest way to order is with your credit card directly online using our real time server. Your order will be processed while you wait and once approved you will be given instant access to the .pdf program downloads.
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Remember, just reading this page isn't going to help you develop the relationship that you want with your teen; you have to take action. This system has already worked for hundreds of parents all over the world who have literally transformed their situations with their teens. Now you can too. Don't pass up this opportunity because chances are that if you decide to wait, you will never take action. This is your chance to change an important aspect of your life for the better, don't let it slip away. I look forward to hearing about your success. Your friend, Sean Simser Co-Creator - Parenting Your Teen Program
WARNING: This Program Is Called "What Every Parent Must Know" For A Reason...
P.S. A wise man once said, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result." Is that what's going on in your current situation with your teen? Are you ready for an exciting, positive change? Our program has worked for hundreds of families, and we know it will work for you too. What excuse could you possibly have for waiting? Claim your copy of the Parenting Your Teen Program and your FREE "Understanding The Teenage Brain" book today CLICK HERE. P.P.S. Remember, to get the complete package and the FREE bonus gift at the limited time price of just $27, you must order by Tuesday, August 04, 2009
Remember, The PYT Program Is Backed By A No-Questions-Asked, 100% Guarantee
P.P.P.S. You have nothing to lose. Don't forget my ironclad, 100% money back guarantee. If you are not completely satisfied with your purchase I will refund your money within 48 hours. You have everything to gain. The risk is squarely on my back. There's no easier and faster way to learn what really works. So what's holding you back? Claim your copy of the program today CLICK HERE
NOTE: Parenting Your Teen is a downloadable e-book. No physical products will be shipped. After you order, you will get INSTANT ACCESS to download the e-book and all the bonus reports onto your computer. The e-book format is adobe acrobat PDF, which can be viewed on Mac and PC.

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