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How to Love Yourself Unconditionally BookHow to Love Yourself UnconditionallyDate: Saturday, 05 April 2014 Dear friend, Do you know what it means to love yourself unconditionally? Do you know how to totally accept and embrace yourself fully? Are you facing difficulties with loving yourself? Just for a moment, tune in. Listen to your self-talk. Is the following self-talk true of you? - Chances are that you have been saying more negative than positive things to yourself. Studies have in fact confirmed that we do 300-400 evaluations per day and the majority of it is negative. If your self-talk is unkind, causes you to feel down and erodes you of your spirit, then you can be said to be having some challenges with feeling good about yourself. On the contrary, should you love yourself absolutely, you will not be doing any of these. Instead, you will be supportive, compassionate and not be constantly criticizing yourself. Hence, it is important that you start to observe what you have been saying to yourself. Then again, loving your encompasses more than just changing your self-talk. Obviously, self-love rests on a continuum. Most of us do have some degree of self-love and acceptance. However, at low or insufficient levels, we can face tremendous difficulties with coping with life. It is possible that we allow our self-talk to overwhelm us to the point that we are unable to function well. Signs of self-sabotaging behavior include procrastination, depression and addictive behavior such as drinking or an eating disorder. Self-sabotage patterns can affect us for years if we do not do anything about them. You are Not Alone If you have been feeling miserable about yourself, then know that you are not alone. Having received about 1,000 email confessions so far and still growing, suffice to say, you are not the only one suffering. You see, for the past 3 years, I have been receiving emails every day from people all over the world about their tremendous challenges with self-love. They have written to me as a result of my blog posts about self-love. Here are two particular email excerpts....
Additionally, I have helping a number of my clients, family and friends about their self-love issues too. From my findings, it is clear that insufficient or the lack of self-love can cause much disruption to anyone's life. And if you ask me, we are living in a world that is starved of love. It is not that love is not available but we have been starving ourselves from our basic need. Chances are that it has been hard to escape from the constant bombardment of messages that made us believe how "not good enough" or unlovable we are. We hear them from our parents, friends, bosses, and media advertisements. In fact, we have been hearing these messages from the time we were born. It has been the case that ever since the time we were children, we have been learning that we need perfect looks, top grades, titles, money and status to be deemed worthy of love and respect. And so, we use these forms of identification to define who we are. Should we fall short, we find it hard to love ourselves. Consequences of Low Self-Love Unfortunately, success can be harder to achieve if the voice inside your head becomes overwhelming. You constantly judge yourself for being "wrong", "imperfect" or "not good enough". You also apply labels such as a "failure", "loser" or "freak" on yourself. Admittedly, it is difficult to experience any ounce of joy when you are convinced of the debilitating stories that you tell yourself.
Because you have been trapped in a negative mental state for so long, loving yourself is not something that comes easily. Even as you wish to break free from your inner critic, you had been facing problems knowing where to start. You find yourself drowning again and again in a whirl of self-pity, self-rejection and self-blame. Hence, it would seem that loving yourself has to be a practice until the day that it becomes natural, just like breathing. So it means that you may just need to start from understanding the basics of what it means to love yourself. Before going on to that, let's look into the consequences of what happens when there is a lack or low level of love:
Most certainly, life can be more of a struggle especially if you are in the habit of deriding yourself. It is hard to function well when you are your greatest enemy. Invariably, you will face problems in relationships, health, success, career and wealth. It is possible to remain stuck in negativity for years, without knowing how to help yourself out effectively.
Myth of Self-Care For one, holding on to myths can prevent you from loving yourself more fully. If you believe that self-love is simply about having a long bath, a manicure, massage or having your hair done, then you are sadly mistaken. Sure these self-care activities make you feel good about yourself. Buying a branded handbag or expensive car for yourself may be able to give you a high. However, these are just externals. The satisfaction that you derive from them do not long last long. The excitement dies out - fast! Hence, it is possible to be engaged in years of self-care but still face difficulties with loving yourself. In fact, by keeping yourself endlessly occupied with forms that engage your senses, you may even miss the whole point about what it truly means to love yourself. And so you get an instant perk through these activities or material possessions but they do not transform you from the inside. The rush of energy fizzles out rather quickly.
Self-love is about your being. It encompasses more than just doing. Hence, to truly love the self is more than a physical act of self-care, having material goods, using mental force to will yourself or having the day off to rest. It is also more than saying positive things to yourself. Self-love necessarily involves the mind-body-spirit. It incorporates an inside-out approach. You will eventually discover that you are the one that you seek. Answers to having a more successful life does not lie outside but from within. It is only when you search inside your heart that you will realize who you really are. Your inner being shines with luminescence, touching and inspiring everyone around you. You become alive and very much, awake. Click Here to Order the Book Now >>> Who am I
I decided to write Self-Love Secrets after having received several emails from the readers to my blog. I realized that there are many who are clueless in knowing how to begin loving themselves. In many ways, they reminded me about how it was like when I first found out that inadequate self-love was the root cause of my problem. I had to scramble around for answers myself back then. The good thing was that I eventually came to my own understanding about my issues. I also discovered that I could help others with my insights. Then again, when I first announced about writing a book on Self-Love, I had no idea that it was going to take me months to finish it. Once I got started, I discovered that things were not so simple as compiling a bunch of tips. Eventually, I realized that I had to cover everything I knew - which meant including spiritual perspectives as well. Hence, my book is not simply an instruction manual but a book that helps create soul awareness. And so, it is a guide to getting started on How to Love Yourself holistically; that is in mind, body and spirit. What Self-Love Secrets Covers
Self-Love Secrets is written in a very easy-to-understand format. Whether you are 21 or 70 years old, you should be able to learn some useful things from this book. It is a great starter guide in your self-discovery journey. My book covers all three mind-body-spirit aspects of the practice. It gets your questions answered, helps you to flip your negative self-talk to a positive one, equips you with strategies and facilitates spiritual awareness. You will learn about the importance of having balance, without tipping over to self-deprecation or narcissism, in order to be healthy. You will find true self-love.
By reading my book, you will learn the following specifically:
For your practical application, I have also included three additional reports. They are as follows:
Together with the bonus reports, the entire Self-Love Secrets collection is meant to be able to help you develop a stronger footing in loving yourself.
Testimonials I have collated findings, research, case studies and results in order to write this book. Most importantly, it includes my personal experiences. I had earlier taken notes from exploring my inner landscape. You will not find this book anywhere else. I thought you may like to know that I have had the pleasure of receiving top endorsements from some authors and experts in the personal development field for my book. Here is what they have to say....
Benefits to Loving Yourself More Fully If you are facing challenges with coping with issues on self-love or self-esteem, then you will need to read Self-Love Secrets. Most certainly, an increased ability to love yourself more fully can have tremendous positive impact on your life. Here are some of the possible benefits that you may derive:
Get Started Now When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life. Hence, do not procrastinate any longer. It is possible to feel better right away. Do not continue to allow your current negative self-talk hijack your right to happiness. Learn how to break free from habitual thought patterns and align with the loving part of you. Shine from the soul always,
P.S. Self-Love Secrets is priced at less than the cost of a therapy session. It contains case studies that I have worked on with my clients. It can save you money and headache in your search for answers and personal transformation. Click Here to Order Self-Love Secrets Now >> |
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My name is Evelyn Lim. My personal growth journey started more than 5 years ago, ever since I made the commitment for inner work. Because I have personally derived tremendous benefits and have seen how my life has changed, I have gone on to offering coaching and therapy assistance to others. I am now a certified life coach, a published author, intuitive consultant, Master Neuro-Linguistic Practitioner and EFT Practitioner. 
How to get started with loving yourself; 
"Self-Love Secrets" surprised me. Not because it is a thoughtful and well-researched guide to finding the radiant being within each of us that is most-surely, worth loving but, because I discovered how many of the issues we grapple with in our daily lives stem from a lack of self-love. 
Self-Love Secrets will inspire, empower and uplift you on your own self-love journey. Evelyn shares her own journey to self-love and I found myself relating closely to many of the stages that Evelyn has experienced and writes about.
I got home today after leading a women's retreat yesterday, and one of the issues we focused on was compassion towards ourselves. Then I settled down and spent some time with your book and so much of what you said was exactly what we were talking about. In fact, when you get your book out, I'm going to send the information to the women from the retreat because I think your book would be great follow up for them. 
Self-Love Secrets is a must-read for anyone who is interested in manifesting abundance. As Evelyn has mentioned in her book, not many of us are actually aware that the vibration of abundance is a creative energy of love. We are therefore not aware that we need to align ourselves with love before we can truly manifest more wealth. The best place is to start from within. We need to first learn to love ourselves. Unfortunately, most of us face great difficulties even with self-acceptance. 
What Evelyn has shared will touch everyone in some way - no matter where each of us is on our journey. Self-love is something that we can all experience, and continue to cultivate more deeply into our being. Evelyn's mix of her own personal journeys along with other stories makes this book an engaging read. More than that, though, it really gets to the heart of what love is, and how we make that part of our daily life. All of this - the stories, the layout, the practical idea on being more self-loving - makes this book a joy to read!
You become happier as a person because you are better able to accept your flaws, imperfections and uniqueness; 
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