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Based Upon The Scientifically Proven To Work Emotional Freedom Techniques. "EFT has been featured in Psychology Today, Larry King, Oprah Winfrey Network, Huffington Post and various other media platforms" Nothing Works to Overcome Your Social Anxiety? Use My EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Based Social Confidence System To Be Permanently Free of Your Social Anxiety Without Facing Your Fears If the above statement sounds too good to be true for you then keep reading because the 4 POWERFUL INSIGHTS I reveal in a moment will help you discover exactly WHY all the things you have tried to beat your social anxiety haven't worked, and HOW you can become effortlessly confident in all social situations. But first let me ask you a few questions: Are you frustrated because your best years are passing you by and are you afraid that you will have to live with this dreaded social anxiety for the rest of your life? Would you give anything to one day be so confident around anyone in any social situation that you actually enjoy meeting new people? How about being able to easily connect with others, and actually having fun going out while being part of a group of great friends? ...but you're afraid to get your hopes up because you've tried everything out there and nothing truly works to overcome your social anxiety? If you answered YES to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you... you are NOT alone. In fact, the above list of questions was created from years of suffering from social anxiety disorder myself. Every single day my thoughts were dominated by the constant fear of what others thought of me and how I should act in order to come across "normal". My anxiety made me feel inferior to others. It made me feel weak and like there was something wrong with me at the core of my being. It was an underlying "distraction" that overpowered everything else. I was deeply ashamed of myself and my situation and once I found out it was possible to overcome it, I knew I could not have lasting happiness until I overcame my social phobia... With a lot of dedication, some luck in finding the right technique (that I'll tell you about in just a second) and a lot of persistence I have found a way to overcome this problem in my life. So I'm not your typical expert that tells you what you should do from what he learned in some psychology book, or a study in Psychology. I actually know from years of personal experience that NOT feeling confident while interacting with others messes up your whole life. I've felt terribly insecure and out of control around others and I know what it's like to always feel scared, worried and on edge. And because I've taken the journey to become completely free of any social anxiety myself, and because I have since made it my profession (I am a personal coach specialized in helping people beat SAD) and life mission to resolve social anxiety for others, I also know how to get out of that suffering. Since 4 years or so, I feel relaxed and at ease around anyone in any social situation. And I can connect easily with people. And I'm telling this, because my clients have achieved this, and this is possible for you as well. Through my personal experience in overcoming anxiety, and my experience coaching socially anxious people for the past 3 years, I have uncovered that there's an actual roadmap to social confidence. And I'll demonstrate that road map to you in a moment. Because while overcoming your social anxiety will require some dedication and effort, anyone can do it. No matter how bad your social anxiety is now. And it won't be painful and hard, nor will it take you years to accomplish. When you keep reading I'll explain how you too can have a sense of belonging when you are around others, and feel that people accept, like and respect you... It feels LIBERATING not needing to hide your uncomfortable feelings you don't want others to see in the hope they will see you as confident. It feels good to have confidence when relating to others, it feels fulfilling to effortlessly connect with others and have a great group of friends. And this can be achieved for you as well as you follow the steps I have uncovered from coaching socially phobic clients for more than 3 years now. Most People Never Overcome Their Social Anxiety And Suffer In Silence Their Whole Life. You don't have to go through the rest of your life suffering from social anxiety, missing out on connecting with others, rewarding relationships, and actually having fun... Or worse... Not having any meaningful relationships at all. I'm going to teach you today how you can stop feeling frustrated and hopeless because nothing works to get over your social anxiety... so you can stop beating yourself up thinking there's something wrong with you... and instead, start learning a powerful, tested, GUARANTEED approach to permanently overcome your social anxiety. So you can have peace of mind and enjoy a natural authentic confidence in all social situations. So you can feel safe and at ease and start creating the friendships and relationships with others that fulfill you. Do These Four Things And You WILL Become Socially Confident - Period. 1) Learn The Most Effective TESTED Technique To Overcome Your Social Anxiety Have you been told you could overcome your social anxiety by using something like affirmations/visualization, hypnosis, journaling, meditation, ignoring your self-talk, positive self-talk, mindfulness techniques or challenging your thoughts and facing the things you fear? ... but you just couldn't get it to work for you properly? It either had no effect or very little effect. And nothing really gave you the results you were hoping for, no matter how hard you tried? Were you told to face your fears progressively, but it was just too hard to keep up with consistently and you ended up procrastinating, postponing and avoiding even more? The sad reality is that this happens all the time... and all too often people end up giving up on trying to overcome their social anxiousness altogether because their lack of results is so demotivating that they end up feeling hopeless, depressed, and give up completely. They are told that scary and embarrassing exposures are the only way to become free and since they can't keep up with that (I couldn't...) they feel completely stuck and see no way out. Luckily though, there is a smarter, more effective way to get over social anxiety. The key to overcoming your social anxiety completely is to overcome the negative limiting beliefs. This may be nothing new to you, as many therapies and techniques say exactly this, and they are right. The problem is that the techniques they provide to change your beliefs are ineffective and inefficient. They're missing an important element: A Powerful Technique To Release Negative Emotions. Imagine if you had a technique that would absolutely guarantee that you can tackle any negative emotion you ever had in your life. Imagine learning about this technique and knowing exactly how to use if effectively to overcome your negative limiting beliefs and change them to supportive empowering ones... I've found this technique after nearly a decade of suffering, searching for something that worked more effectively than all the other techniques I tried. And once I got this technique to work for me, after studying with the best in the world, and after more than 3 years of using this technique successfully in helping my clients overcome their social phobias, I have developed a step-by-step blueprint to overcoming all of your social anxiety using this technique. Applying this technique (called EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques ) in the right way will transform your life forever. And you can learn how to use it FAST because the basics are super easy. A 10 year old can learn it in just 5 minutes. Overcoming a social anxiety disorder is however a complex issue with a lot of blocks and resistances that need to be addressed in order to have success with EFT. It requires a structured, detailed approach that I'll share with you. But while it is a complex issue to overcome, it is not difficult as I break it down into small chunks and guide you every step of the way. And as we will be using this EFT we will systematically eliminate your social anxiety one easy step at a time. 2) Discover Why You Are Anxious and How to Overcome It Have you ever asked yourself why it is that others feel confident and at ease socializing with others while you feel anxious, stiff and uncomfortable? For them it's effortless, and for you it's difficult to the point of feeling exhausted after socializing. What's the difference? The difference is in the beliefs you hold in our mind. The way you feel about yourself, the way you feel in social situations and the way you feel around others and in the world is determined by the beliefs you have. Socially confident people believe certain things about themselves, about other people and about the world around them (such as "I'm worthy", "people like me" and "the world is a safe and friendly place") that make them feel safe and naturally at ease around others. While you hold some negative beliefs about yourself, others and the world (such as "I'm not good enough", "there's something wrong with me", "I have to be perfect to be accepted", "people are out to get me", "people don't like me", "the world is a dangerous and unfriendly place") that cause you to feel unsafe in social situations. As a result of the experiences you had in life you learned these beliefs and now you have all these fears when you are in social situations: fear of getting rejected, fear of embarrassing yourself, fear of being humiliated, of being criticized, laughed at, ignored, bullied, etc. And because of this you're not feeling safe in these situations. And whenever you are in danger (whether that is real danger like that of a wild bear near you, or the perceived danger of rejection) your subconscious mind fires off the automatic natural response to danger: the Fight Flight or Freeze response. And this results in the sensations you label as anxiety. What it comes down to is that social confidence is an inside job... ...and the single most important thing you will ever do to help yourself become comfortable and confident in social settings is to uncover and eliminate the negative limiting beliefs responsible for your social anxiety, so you can. Unlock Your Natural Confidence Inside You. You may not believe you have that in you just yet, but trust me everyone has it. You are born with it, but you just can't feel it because of the negative limiting beliefs you have learned throughout life's hardships. You experience anxiety in social situations because your subconscious mind sees them as dangerous. And because of this, it fires off the automated, natural response to danger: the Fight or Flight or Freeze response, which causes the anxiety symptoms. Once you change these beliefs that you learned (whether that is from personal negative experiences, from having "inherited" them from people close to you, or from society programming) your subconscious mind no longer sees social situations as dangerous and it then won't fire off the FFF response and you no longer feel anxious. By using EFT in the right way you can eliminate any negative limiting belief, any negative emotion, and completely overcome your anxiety... no matter how intense and overwhelming your anxiety is now... Now this is not something you will achieve in an hour of using EFT. It does require your effort and energy. BUT, it's not difficult at all. I will guide you every step of the way, and you will notice it working during the first exercise. And as you move forward you will quickly start to feel less and less anxious and more and more calm and in control. Once you change your negative limiting beliefs to positive supportive beliefs, you will no longer feel unsafe and as a result your anxiety will disappear completely. And it won't come back. While it may be difficult to believe now, it is possible to get to a place of self-confidence where you feel comfortable and safe around others. And this comfort and confidence within yourself will cause people to feel comfortable with you as well. ...eliminate any negative limiting belief, any negative emotion, and completely overcome your anxiety... 3) Eliminate Your Resistance and Follow the Easy and Tested Blueprint to Social Confidence Have you ever found yourself procrastinating on something that you knew would benefit you? Have you been guilty of creating a "more perfect" goal while you haven't achieved the previous one? Have you felt really exhausted when it came time to take action in beating your social anxiety? Did you tell yourself you'd do it "next time" because at the moment you simply don't have the energy for it, or you're not prepared enough? I learned that this sabotage behavior happens when your subconscious mind (the deeper, more powerful part of your mind who's job it is to protect you) thinks it's not safe for you to be free of anxiety. And because your subconscious thinks it's not safe for you to change it tries to stop you from changing permanently. And so you experience self-sabotage. As long as your subconscious mind thinks it's not safe and beneficial for you to be free of your social anxiety, it will do anything in its power to make sure you stay anxious. To put it bluntly... If You Don't Overcome Your (Subconscious) Resistance You Will Never Be Permanently Free Of Your Social Anxiety. In the Social Confidence System you get rid of all the subconscious resistance. So you move past the self sabotage and your results last. So that when you're free of your anxiety you stay free of it. 4) Face the Situations You Fear WITHOUT Fear I've found out that there is an EASIER and MORE EFFECTIVE way to beat your anxiety than forcing yourself with grinding teeth to face the things you fear. The advice out there to do the things you fear is solid advice. The "exposure" (facing the thing you fear - a specific social situation) is intended for you to go through an experience and gather evidence that it is safe to be in social situations. This builds some confidence, and with that confidence you can face a "scarier" situation. And so forth. The problem is that when we do these exposures, no matter what mindset we hold strongly, or however positive we talk to ourselves, or however deep we breathe, we still feel very uncomfortable and anxious. And so it takes a long time before we can actually collect some evidence that social situations are safe. PLUS, it is obviously painful and embarrassing to do the thing you feared. And you often end up looking especially uncomfortable and anxious. The powerful insight I'm sharing with you here is that once you use this EFT technique in the right way, you can. Face Any Situation Without A Hint Of Fear (A "non-scary exposure") I've managed to figure out how to get this to work and by following along with the step-by-step instructions in the Social Confidence System I will teach you how to comfortably broaden your comfort zone, raise your confidence, and teach your subconscious mind that indeed it is safe to be in social situations MUCH faster than when you face the thing you fear while being dead scared. This is because with a "non-scary-exposure" you actually collect real evidence that a social situation is safe because you face it without any fear, feeling completely calm and relaxed. You'll be amazed by the simplicity and power of EFT when you make it work for you following the roadmap to social confidence that I have laid out for you... It is not a magic pill because you do have to put in the work and use EFT to change your beliefs and overcome your resistance, but based upon my experience with all the other available solutions and based on the feedback from clients and customers, I know that using EFT in the right way is BY FAR the most effective way to become anxiety-free. When you follow the steps one after the other, your anxiety will get less and less, and your natural confidence will start to come out and become second nature to you. So you no longer have to fake being confident, but actually feel calm and confident on the inside. When nothing has worked for you, applying EFT in the right way is what will make the difference for you. I realize that at this point that may still sound hard to believe, but EFT has changed my life and I know that when you follow the steps in my system to apply EFT in the right way it will change your life too. In order to become confident in any social situation, it is a MUST that you apply EFT in the right way to overcome all your resistance, change your negative limiting beliefs into positive ones, and train your brain that social situations are safe. And you'll be amazed at just how quickly this happens once you start applying EFT in the right way. My Online Social Confidence System Will Give You All 4 - Using The Most Effective Technique, The Right Understanding, Overcoming Resistance, And The Roadmap To Social Confidence. You can start with my System RIGHT NOW, and in a few minutes you can get started with releasing your social anxiety. Try Out My Social Confidence System Right Now - Risk FREE For 60 Days Try Social Confidence System Today Learn Secrets To: Annihilate All Social Anxiety Without Doing Scary Exposures Be Yourself And Feel Naturally Confident In All Social Situations Enjoy Social Situations And Build Satisfying Relationships And Friendships   $197 WATCH What Will You Get? As soon as you make the investment you will receive in your inbox your unique login details to the Social Confidence System (which consists of more than 30 EFT tapping videos, over 60 EFT audios, and nearly 50 articles) and the instruction manual with the 14 steps to social confidence. For each step in the manual there are easy instructions to successfully complete the step. Each step starts with a thorough, logical explanation as to why you will be doing the exercises to complete that step. After each step there is a checklist section making sure you covered everything. After having read the explanation, you go through an exercise to uncover your unique challenges (while you might not know what they are now, the exercises -with lots of examples of clients I have worked with- will help you uncover them without a problem). Then you follow along with the guided EFT tap along audios, or the guided EFT tap along videos that contain subtitles where you input your unique challenges you have uncovered. You simply follow my lead, say what I say, do EFT tapping where I instruct you to tap, and follow the instructions you see in the subtitled videos. You are literally seeing me on camera telling you what to do and what to say. So you can't make any mistakes because I guide you every step of the way. As you tap and focus on your uncovered issues, the tapping will release your negative emotions connected to the uncovered issues and step by step you are getting rid of the negative experiences and negative limiting beliefs that are responsible for the fears you have in social situations. It's easy and there is a troubleshooting section in case you don't get instant results. For each challenge there is a solution. The SCS is my life's work. I have invested tens of thousands of dollars into getting direct guidance and training from Lindsay Kenny and Karl Dawson (leaders and innovators in the EFT world) and aside from all the years of studying and workshops I have done to be able to put this system together for you, I continuously improve working weekly with my own world class coach, making sure you have the best possible solutions to quickly resolving your social anxiety (disorder). This 7th version is thoroughly tested based upon feedback from customers and there are solutions to any challenge. It works powerfully, and you get results fast. You notice it working during the first exercise, and as you put in just 30 minutes the first 7 days, you will have seen such improvements that you have not made with any other program that you will be excited to keep going and release all your social anxiety permanently. You will already feel a lot more in control in just that one week. Yes it will cost you some effort. I'm not saying this is a magic pill. But you will notice changes quickly, it's easy to follow, I help you move past procrastination issues as one of the first steps of the system, and by following along with the exercises you can completely become anxiety free and enjoy effortless social confidence for the rest of your life. Plus, as you learn how to use EFT in the right way and you understand how your brain works, you will gain an emotional control that helps you in all other areas of your life. Each step of the system removes one of the building blocks of your social anxiety. As you move from one step to the next, your faith in becoming anxiety-free will start to grow and you'll start feeling calmer, more in control, less anxious and bit by bit your natural confidence starts to appear in more and more situations. Your life opens up, you'll be free to express yourself, you can start new hobbies, create deep connections and rewarding friendships, start dating and so forth. And if you ever really get stuck and the troubleshooting can't get you past it (which is highly unlikely) you have direct (anonymous if you like) email access to me and I will help you through it. You can start with my System RIGHT NOW, and in a few minutes you can get started with releasing your social anxiety. Try Out My Social Confidence System Right Now - Risk FREE For 60 Days Try Social Confidence System Today Learn Secrets To: Annihilate All Social Anxiety Without Doing Scary Exposures Be Yourself And Feel Naturally Confident In All Social Situations Enjoy Social Situations And Build Satisfying Relationships And Friendships   $197 WATCH By Going Through The SCS You'll Be Able To... Feel better and get results FAST because we use the most effective and efficient techniques from the best therapies and methods out there put on steroids by combining them with the most powerful technique of them all; EFT. Broaden your comfort zone, raise your confidence, and eliminate your social anxiety in the most comfortable, yet MOST EFFECTIVE and EFFICIENT way possible. Feel comfortable and at ease in all social situations, actually having fun in them. Overcome excessive negative emotions: Neutralize shame and embarrassment and stop blushing, panicking and sweating. Release any upset, anxiety or shame related to certain key negative people from your past so you won't fear running into these people any longer because you know you can calmly face them. Destroy your fear of rejection, feel comfortable when you are the center of attention and calmly deal with criticism. Stop caring about what others think of you. Feel confident and be yourself around anyone and everyone (Including attractive people, groups of people, strangers, people in authority and "cool" or successful people). Enjoy socializing, make and maintain eye contact naturally and effortlessly and have a great time meeting new people. Finally feel like you belong, feel normal, feel connected and part of the gang. Feel safe having close, connected and rewarding relationships with others. Create great friendships, design the social life that you enjoy, and (instead of dreading them and worrying about them days before) actually look forward to social events, dinners, get-togethers, birthday parties, weddings, etc. Have the freedom to conquer any area of interest that was formerly "too scary" such as starting a new hobby, dating, getting an intimate relationship, travel, advance your career, etc. Gain the tools and understanding to easily achieve and maintain emotional health, stop feeling lonely and frustrated, and be in control of your emotions and your emotional state. Stop beating yourself up for not living your potential and finally start living your potential. Enjoy Social Confidence For The Rest Of Your Life. Once You Help Yourself Overcome Your Social Anxiety It Is GONE. As In Gone FOREVER, Never To Return. Watch the below video where I show you the Social Confidence System and tell you exactly how you will permanently overcome your anxiety, and live a life of natural, authentic confidence in all social situations: And because the SCS is tested and works, and because I know that by applying EFT in the right way your life will be changed like mine and my clients' have, I offer a guarantee that you will also overcome social anxiety. Start the Social Confidence System right now RISK FREE for 60 days. If for any reason you're not happy, simply let me know before the 60 days are up, and I'll give you a full refund - No nonsense with receipts or upsells or all that nonsense. If you don't get the results, you get your money back. It's one email to me and that's it. No questions asked. I am this bold with my guarantee because I know it works when you put in the work and commit. Try Out My Social Confidence System Right Now - Risk FREE For 60 Days Try Social Confidence System Today Learn Secrets To: Annihilate All Social Anxiety Without Doing Scary Exposures Be Yourself And Feel Naturally Confident In All Social Situations Enjoy Social Situations And Build Satisfying Relationships And Friendships   $197 WATCH Start releasing your social anxiety today and become confident and at ease in social situations ... My Social Confidence System is simply the easiest, most effective and efficient way to do it. Committed to your social confidence, Sebastiaan van der Schrier *Pro-EFT Level III, NLP Prac, PSYCH-K, Social Anxiety Disorder specialist. Customer Feedback ...an amazing life changing feeling. My trigger situations were getting less and less and my confidence to speak out was rising and now when I think about certain situations that would normally make me anxious I can't make myself feel anxious. I solved 95% my social anxiety... an amazing life changing feeling. I feel like a different person." Joanne ...I feel lighter ..I'm excited because I really feel changes already. I feel lighter and am even starting to interact with people at work who I never could talk with much before. And this is without really trying and pushing myself to." Sean ..This works I've spent most of my teens and twenties looking for *the* social anxiety cure, if such a thing actually existed. After a 10+ year search (& plenty of snake oil salesmen), I stumbled over the psychological equivalent of the holy grail: EFT & Sebastiaan's EFT-based Social Confidence System. I've made more headway in a few months using the SCS than the previous 10+ years of talk therapy, cog-behavioral therapy, hypnosis & affirmations combined. Seriously. Thanks again, Sebastiaan!" Dave Try Out My Social Confidence System Right Now - Risk FREE For 60 Days Try Social Confidence System Today Learn Secrets To: Annihilate All Social Anxiety Without Doing Scary Exposures Be Yourself And Feel Naturally Confident In All Social Situations Enjoy Social Situations And Build Satisfying Relationships And Friendships   $197 WATCH