Help your child make friendsFor parents who want to help their children make friends and improve their social skills "Does Your Child Struggle
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From: Ellen C. Braun Date: Wednesday October, 12th, 2011 |
Re: From Awkward Solitude to Blessed Friendship.
Dear Proactive Parent,
You know how every single individual child within the same family can differ - sometimes radically - from the next. Even with the most positive parenting, some children suffer more during social development than others. You think back to your own painful or anxious childhood social experiences, and realize that some of these experiences were both normal and necessary.
And some were not.
Both of you want your little boy to have fun and enjoy the experience of childhood to its fullest. You want him to learn to:
Share with others | |
Enjoy other children's personalities - and have them enjoy his | |
Respect other children's differences | |
Respect adults | |
Be sensitive to the world around him | |
Be aware, and open and warm | |
Be courageous and adventurous | |
Be prudent - and stay safe |
You also don't want to see him as:
The child who somehow is never invited to his school friends' parties | |
The one who is always left out, never picked to join in other children's games |
But sometimes, painful social struggles go even deeper than the casual cruelty of peers... or coping with shyness.
What is Your Child's Struggle?
Even though all children learn through being taught how to share and care for others - as well as through making mistakes and experiencing the consequences - sometimes things don't go quite as you expect.
Social clues and conflicts alert you to the fact that your child may have more challenges than "normal".
Sometimes, you receive an "actual problem" diagnosis - and you feel as if your world has been turned inside out. You realize you are now the parent of a child with a challenge such as Asperger's Syndrome... or Autism... or ADD. When that happens, your family's journey radically changes course.
Sometimes, you haven't had any sort of diagnosis yet: You just suspect something isn't quite right. Your little boy is having anger management issues, or doesn't engage with other children, or won't look people in the eye. Or play.
You ask yourself...
"Is This Normal... or Should I be Worried?"
You wish you could just consult an expert - but you're painfully aware it might take months to find the right one. And yes - you can head straight for the library, or your favorite quality bookstore: But there's a problem with reading books about childhood behavior...
...with the best will in the world, experts are naturally biased. The authors of these books are passionately specializing in just one aspect or subject:
- A book on "Autism" may start you suspecting your child has the high functioning variety - even if she is not Autistic at all
- A book on "ADD" will soon have you convinced your child is showing signs, every time he has a meltdown after school
- A book on "Asperger's Syndrome" may have you worrying about her obsession with Dora the Explorer
And all of these "signs" may be due to something completely different - they may be related to incidents at school, problems with a bully, reading difficulties or dietary problems - and a host of other influences, in between.
These books aren't wrong - in fact, for parents whose children have been diagnosed with these specific conditions, these books can be a Godsend.
But what you need at this early stage is to focus your time on making the correct call. You need something to help you and your child sort out the pieces from the puzzle - and make sure those pieces actually belong to the puzzle at hand!
The Single Biggest Mistake Parents - And Experts - Repeatedly Make
Since you are a proactive and caring parent - one who has made a lifelong habit of investing time in, and quality interaction with, your children - you are already hunting for a "solution" to your child's socialization problem right now.
But there is one tragic mistake parents - and experts - often make...
They focus on the problem.
Children are Not Defined by a Single Characteristic
The "problem" you've been worrying about is nothing more or less than an indicator that something is not working for your child. And you need to find out what it is: Quickly, so you can do what you can to help your child set it right!
But you know what they say... (In fact, you've probably said it yourself)...
"Children don't come with manuals!"
Except now they do!
How Would You Like to Find Advice from
Experts, as well as
Ideas, Worksheets and Strategies... All in One Place?
My name is Ellen C. Braun, and many of you will know me from my interactive
website, Raising Small Souls, which has garnered 61,000+ subscribers
since its official opening in April 2006. Or you may know me from the "Animal
School" movies and books - both an overwhelming hit with both educators
and parents.
My new booklet, From Awkward Solitude To Blessed Friendship, carries many of the Animal School lessons about social interactivity to a new level - one that gives parents a complete but mercifully easy to use set of tools to help their child adjust and fit in - no matter what has triggered your child's social problem. |
Socialization Issues are Far Less Scary when
the Causes are Correctly Identified
The last thing you want to do is make a molehill out of a mountain... or (of course) the reverse!
There's no need for anxiety - either on your part or your child's: Instead, you need to be able to swiftly understand exactly how to react - and what will help your child conquer his problem in the most effective and satisfactory way.
But what if you're secretly worrying that somehow, you or your spouse may have triggered the behavior?
If that's what you're thinking, I honor you for being both brave and proactive. It's so much easier to isolate ourselves from the problem - when sometimes, our own habits or behavior are actually the cause!
The truth is, facing your own habits or emotions doesn't have to be as overwhelming as it sounds. Especially not when you have easy worksheets, written especially for you and your child, to quickly and simply help you put the pieces in their proper place.
Children are Susceptible to Socialization Issues at Any Age
And even if you know you've been the perfect parent, one of the most bewildering experiences you may be facing involves your perfectly socialized child turning into an angry or withdrawn teenager.
One who doesn't seem to fit in with any group at all.
Your worry that high school is turning out to be too much of an adjustment becomes suddenly dwarfed by the realization that, all of a sudden, you and your daughter don't even speak the same language!
You miss your chatty, outgoing daughter - the one you had such a special relationship with as a child, leaving you convinced you'd by-pass teen angst, and always be friends.
What Should You Expect, as the Parent of a Teenager
who is Changing Rapidly Before Your Eyes?
How can you get back on the communication train together again?
I tackle the whole spectrum of childhood social issues, from kindergarten to teen - in my new booklet, From Awkward Solitude To Blessed Friendship.
And you can download my booklet and discover the key to your child's social interactivity issue today.
You'll instantly have access to:
All the expert advice in one place | |
Ideas and strategies suited to almost every cause and situation | |
Step-by-step instructions to simplify the process | |
Concepts that target various types of personalities |
You see, one problem with "parenting" books is the way they try to apply the same rules to all children...
...when we all are perfectly aware, "one size" does not fit all!
My Personal, "No Risk", Money Back Guarantee
Download this easy, interactive workbook right now and pinpoint the perfect - and easiest - solution to end your own unique child's social struggles.
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You'll receive, within moments:
- Clear definitions and goal setting tips and techniques
- An understanding of preferred learning styles and different intelligences
- An emotional and social challenge checklist
- Instructions on how to simply but effectively take emotional inventory
- A perfect balance between information, instruction and participation
- Multiple, effective methods you can choose to apply, when dealing with the past - even successfully and correctly ignoring it, if you don't want to "go back"!
- A powerful chart that can specifically cue you to your child's unique behavior patterns and triggers
- How to correctly read important information about your child's specific challenges
- 7 different modes of learning - and how to tell which one applies to your child
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Both information and worksheets are expertly laced with a sprinkling of highly relevant, helpful case studies that make the book feel more like a story, and not "heavy scientific going" at all.
And, of course, you can print out and use the worksheets as many times as you need to.
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We owe a lot to psychologists and social theorists who have studied specific behaviors and isolated the key points of what makes children with specific problems (and even perfectly "normal" children) tick. But trying to read one of their books can sometimes create even more anxiety.
Your Social Skills Manual Doesn't Have to Read
Like A Scientific Treatise
You need a booklet that will simply put the issues in practical, warm, caring terms and quickly show you exactly what you can most effectively do...
...with the least stress on you and your child, in the process.
So download From Awkward Solitude to Blessed Friendship today - and help your child banish fear and insecurity... by sharing an experience that can only bring you both closer - for life.
And what's more, I'm making it available for a short time for $27.00 - instead of its regular price of $47.00. You see, I want to make sure that everyone who needs it can afford this smaller investment.
But after January 31st, that special price will be gone forever - my booklet will return to its regular price of $47.00 to stay.
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Which areas are a struggle for your child?
Determine that - and help them successfully move past these obstacles - today.
It really is that simple to start the ball rolling towards a brighter social future for your child!
Yours in parenting,
"Responsible parenting for the future"
P.S. You don't have to rely on fears and intuition any longer. Access concrete definitions as your reference point - ones that will help socially empower your child and decrease childhood stress. Download this powerful source of lifetime parenting help today for only $27.00 - and remember, you have my 100% money-back guarantee - trying these techniques is at no risk to you, at all.
P.P.S. Remember to order your copy before January 31st, 2009 - after that date, From Awkward Solitude To Blessed Friendship returns to its regular price of $47.00. Download it today - while you're on this page.
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