What If You Have To Live With Your Social Anxiety For The Rest Of Your Life?
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In a few moments, I'm going to reveal 4 POWERFUL INSIGHTS that you can take action on immediately to become confident around anyone in all social situations... but first, let me ask you some questions: |
Does the mere THOUGHT of certain upcoming social situations make you feel ANXIOUS?
When talking with certain people, do you freeze up, draw a blank, and be all stiff and serious as you're trying to hide how uncomfortable you really feel inside?
Does it make being yourself and connecting with people nearly impossible, let alone have fun?
Do you often feel like an outsider, and do you often feel totally in your head, in your own world, rather than connected with others?
Do you feel like your best years are passing you by and are you afraid that you will have to live with this dreaded social anxiety for the rest of your life?
Would you give anything to one day be so confident around anyone in all social situations that you actually enjoy meeting new people, easily connect with others, and actually have fun going out and being part of a group of great friends...
... but you're afraid to get your hopes up because you've tried everything out there and nothing truly works to overcome your social anxiety?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, then I have some important news for you... You're NOT alone. In fact, that list of questions was created from years of suffering from social anxiety disorder myself, learning about the most effective and efficient techniques to overcome it, and coaching socially phobic clients for more than 3 years.
The bottom line is... NOT feeling confident interacting with others impacts your whole life. It causes you to always feel scared, worried and on edge. It leaves you feeling insecure and disempowered around others and it creates an underlying "distraction" that overpowers everything else...
On the other hand... feeling comfortable and confident in social situations feels LIBERATING. It feels great to comfortably be who you really are, to have a sense of belonging when you are around others, and to feel that people accept, like and respect you... it feels good not trying to hide your uncomfortable feelings that you don't want them to see in the hope they will see you as confident.
It just feels good to have confidence when relating to others. It not only feels good to YOU, it also feels good to OTHER PEOPLE... and it's WORTH LEARNING.
Most People Never Overcome Their Social Anxiety, And They Suffer In Silence Their Whole Life.
You don't have to go through life suffering from social anxiety, missing out
on connecting with others, rewarding relationships, and actually having fun...
Or worse...
Not having any meaningful relationships at all!
I'm going to teach you today how you can stop banging your head against the wall using strategies that don't work... stop punishing yourself emotionally... and instead, start learning a powerful, tested, GUARANTEED approach to permanently overcome your anxiety, have peace of mind, and enjoy a natural authentic confidence in all social situations.
So you can feel safe and at ease and start creating the friendships and relationships with others that fulfill you.
Do These Four Things And You WILL Become Socially Confident - Period.
1) Discover Why You Are Anxious and How To Overcome It
Social confidence is an inside job... and the single most important thing you will ever do to help yourself become comfortable and confident in social settings is to uncover the negative limiting beliefs responsible for your anxiety, so you can unlock your natural confidence inside of you.
Have you ever asked yourself why it is that others feel confident and at ease socializing with others while you are anxious and uncomfortable?
That's because socially confident people believe certain things about themselves, other people and the world around them that makes them feel naturally confident and at ease. While you believe certain things as well that cause you to feel nervous, anxious and on edge.
- When you believe that people are nice and friendly, do you feel more or less confident in social situations?
- When you believe that other people are better than you, do you feel more or less uncomfortable when interacting with others?
- When you believe that the world is an unfriendly place, do you feel more or less relaxed and at ease when entering a room full of people?
The way you feel about yourself, the way you feel in social situations and the way you feel around others and in the world is determined by the beliefs you have. The negative limiting beliefs you have are responsible for you not feeling safe in social situations. And as a result you feel anxious.
Once you change your negative limiting beliefs to positive supportive beliefs, you will no longer feel unsafe and your anxiety will vanish completely. You will experience an unshakable feeling of self-confidence, people will start to open up to you, be more friendly with you, and treat you with respect - all because you have changed yourself on the inside.
| If you REALLY want permanent, effortless confidence in social settings, overcoming your negative beliefs is not optional. You have to do it. Unfortunately, with the common approaches out there it can take many years to do this on your own... and it's all too easy to lose motivation and become overwhelmed if what you're doing is hardly making a difference, no matter how hard you try. Believe me... I know. |
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Luckily for you, through my own personal struggles I've developed a powerful step-by-step SYSTEM for overcoming social anxiety completely. I've found the most effective and efficient technique to track down negative limiting beliefs and change them into empowering supportive beliefs.
I've figured out how to eliminate any negative limiting belief, any negative emotion, and completely overcome your anxiety... no matter how intense and overwhelming your anxiety is now... and it won't take you years to do it.
2) Learn The Most Effective TESTED Technique To Overcome Anxiety
Have you been told you could overcome your social anxiety by using something like affirmations/visualization, hypnosis, journaling, meditation, ignoring your self-talk, positive self-talk, mindfulness techniques or challenging your thoughts and facing the things you fear?
... but you just couldn't get it to work for you properly? It either had no effect, very little effect, or only temporary effect, and nothing really gave you a lot of results, no matter how hard you have tried?
Were you told to face your fears progressively, but it was just too hard to keep up with consistently and you ended up procrastinating, postponing and avoiding even more?
The sad reality is that this happens all the time... and all too often people end up giving up on trying to overcome their social anxiousness because they just don't know what to do anymore. They feel completely stuck and see no way out.
The key to overcoming your social anxiety completely is to overcome the negative limiting beliefs. Many therapies and techniques say exactly this, and they are right. The problem is that the techniques they provide to change your beliefs are ineffective and inefficient. They're missing an important element. And that is a powerful technique to release negative emotions.
Imagine if you had a technique that would absolutely guarantee that you can tackle any negative emotion you ever had in your life. Imagine learning about this technique and knowing exactly how to use if effectively to overcome your negative limiting beliefs and change them to supportive empowering ones...
I've found this technique after nearly a decade of searching for something that worked more effectively than all the other techniques I tried.
And once I got it to work for me, after studying with the best in the world, and after more than 3 years of using this technique successfully in helping my clients overcome their social phobias, I have developed a step-by-step blueprint to overcoming all of your social anxiety.
Applying this technique (called EFT - Emotional Freedom Techniques) in the right way will transform your life forever. And you can learn how to use it FAST... I'll show you all of the basics first... and then I let you in on how to use it to systematically eliminate the building blocks of your social anxiety.
3) Eliminate Resistance and Follow the Easy And Tested Blueprint To A Lifetime Of Social Confidence
I know you really want to overcome your social anxiety. But I also know that your subconscious mind, the much more powerful part of your mind that is really in control, thinks it's not safe and beneficial to be free of your anxiety.
It sees all these possible consequences to changing. And as a result of this resistance you end up with a lot of self-sabotage (procrastination, blind spots, fatigue, excuses, etc.) because your subconscious mind's prime directive is to keep you safe.
And if it thinks that you being without anxiety is not safe or beneficial it will do anything in its power to make sure you stay anxious.
It turned out that the most important thing I did in my quest to become socially confident in all situations was to overcome my resistance FIRST.
If you don't overcome your (subconscious) resistance to overcoming your social anxiety you will never be confident.
4)
Face the Situations You Fear WITHOUT Fear
I've found out that there is a SMARTER way than forcing yourself with grinding teeth to face the things you fear.
The advice out there to do the things you fear is solid advice. The "exposure" (facing the thing you fear - a specific social situation) is intended for you to go through an experience and gather evidence that it is safe to be in social situations. This builds some confidence, and with that confidence you can face a "scarier" situation. And so forth.
The problem is that when we do these exposures, no matter what mindset we hold strongly, or however positive we talk to ourselves, or however deep we breathe, we still feel quite uncomfortable and anxious.
And so it takes a long time before we can actually collect some evidence that social situations are safe.
PLUS, it is obviously painful and embarrassing to do the thing you feared, because you often end up looking especially uncomfortable and anxious.
The really exciting insight here is that once you use this EFT technique in the right way, you can face any situation without a hint of fear.
I've managed to figure out how to get this to work and I will teach you how to comfortably broaden your comfort zone, raise your confidence, and teach your subconscious mind that indeed it is safe to be in social situations MUCH faster than when you face the thing you fear while being dead scared.
This is because with a "non-scary-exposure" you actually collect real evidence that a social situation is safe when you face one without fear, because you feel completely calm and relaxed!
You'll be amazed by the simplicity and power of EFT when you make it work for you following the roadmap to social confidence that I have laid out for you... It is not a magic pill, but the closest thing to it. This is that BIG BREAKTHROUGH that you've been waiting for.
If you're looking to become confident in all social situations, it's a MUST that you overcome all your resistance, change your negative limiting beliefs into positive ones, and train your brain that social situations are safe.
And you'll be amazed at just how quickly this happens once you start applying EFT in the right way.
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By Going Through The SCS You'll Be Able To...
- Feel better and get results FAST because we use the most effective and efficient techniques from the best therapies and methods out there put on steroids by combining them with the most powerful technique of them all; EFT.
- Broaden your comfort zone, raise your confidence, and eliminate your social anxiety in the most comfortable, yet MOST EFFECTIVE and EFFICIENT way possible.
- Feel comfortable and at ease in all social situations, actually having fun in them.
- Overcome excessive negative emotions: Neutralize shame and embarrassment and stop blushing, panicking and sweating.
- Release any upset, anxiety or shame related to certain key negative people from your past so you won't fear running into these people any longer because you know you can calmly face them.
- Destroy your fear of rejection, feel comfortable when you are the center of attention and calmly deal with criticism.
- Stop caring about what others think of you.
- Feel confident and be yourself around anyone and everyone (Including attractive people, groups of people, strangers, people in authority and "cool" or successful people).
- Enjoy socializing, make and maintain eye contact naturally and effortlessly and have a great time meeting new people.
- Finally feel like you belong, feel normal, feel connected and part of the gang.
- Feel safe having close, connected and rewarding relationships with others.
- Create great friendships, design the social life that you enjoy, and (instead of dreading them and worrying about them days before) actually look forward to social events, dinners, get-togethers, birthday parties, weddings, etc.
- Have the freedom to conquer any area of interest that was formerly "too scary" such as starting a new hobby, dating, getting an intimate relationship, travel, advance your career, etc.
- Gain the tools and understanding to easily achieve and maintain emotional health, stop feeling lonely and frustrated, and be in control of your emotions and your emotional state.
- Stop beating yourself up for not living your potential and finally start living your potential.
- Enjoy Social Confidence For The Rest Of Your Life. Once You Help Yourself Overcome Your Social Anxiety It Is GONE. As In Gone FOREVER, Never To Return.
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There's no better time than right now to TAKE ACTION to start releasing your anxiety and becoming confident and at ease in social situations ... and my Social Confidence System is simply the easiest, most effective and efficient way to do it.
Committed to your social confidence,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier
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